To develop to the highest a range of friendship, there is a need to establish a place where "somewhere only we know". It is a crucial foundation for any marriage in my opinion. Without it, marriage tends to break and crumble under the name of dispute easily. A perfect example would be my parents, they failed find that space for them where they can talk about things without the fear of being overheard or judged upon. Just so you know, I am saying this with the eyes of a 18 year old who wants to explore more about this world and prepare for the future, so do not take this as a wise advice. I also like to reassure you that your bed is never that "somewhere only we know" because eventually that leads to sex and that does not resolve anything. Well, there are exclusions with the hyper-protective ones who does not supply the fantasy. But dealing with them is beside the point.
So where could this "somewhere only we know" be if it was not to be your bed or your room or toilet for my case- the toilet is my favourite part of the house it brings joy in all shapes and forms- which is only limited to privacy. As much as that "somewhere only we know" sounds super private, however, it does not situate in the house. It is out there in the world somewhere. It could be a rooftop, subway station, sometimes a pub, but that lacks romance and is more suitable for friendship, or even the corner of the streets. The point is it is a place that is able to channel both members or more emotions through a unifying medium.
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